Life Milestone


Hmmm.. apa yang berbeda di pagi ini? Yang berbeda adalah saya mendapatkan ini:

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Sebuah kejutan yang indah dari suami saya tuh😀

Yup, hari ini saya berulang tahun. Sebenarnya, terasa sedih ya, wong tahun ini saya masuk kepala 3 je.. sudah 30 tahun gituh.. sudah nggak kepala 2 lagi😦

Begitulah kehidupan. Sebenarnya, nggak perlu dirayakan atau dispesialkan pada hari ini pun, setiap detiknya kita sudah mengalami proses penuaan lho.. dan tentunya berkurangnya waktu kita di dunia. Itu lah seharusnya yang menjadi pijakan tiap kali melalui masa pengingat seperti hari ini. Pertanyaan besarnya adalah: “Apa yang sudah saya lakukan? Apa pencapaian hidup saya sejauh ini?”

Setelah pertanyaan reflektif itu kemudian muncul tantangan baru lagi, “Selanjutnya, apa yang mau saya lakukan?”

Deci (1975) suggested that the need for competence leads people to seek and conquer challenges that are optimal for their capacities, and that competence acquisition results from interacting with stimuli that  are challenging.

Izard (1977) proposed that there are 10 different human emotions; that each is involved in the motivation of behavior; and that each has a unique experiential component. Among these emotions, interest-excitement is said to be the basis of intrinsically motivated behavior, and joy is said to play a relevant though secondary role. Interest is involved whenever one orients toward an object, and it plays an important role in the amplification and direction of attention. Interest-excitement can therefore activate many types of investigatory or manipulative behaviors, particularly under conditions of novelty and freedom from other pressing demands of drives or emotions.

Csikszentmihalyi (1975) placed greater emphasis on enjoyment. For him, intrinsically motivated activities are ones characterized by enjoyment, those for which the reward is the ongoing experience of enjoying the activity. He uses the term autotelic to refer to the fact that the goal of intrinsically motivated behaviors is indeed their inherent experiential aspects. Csikszentmihalyi’s research suggests that flow states emerge under some specifiable conditions. Most important among these is optimal challenge. When one engages an optimally challenging activity with respect to one’s capacities there is maximal possibility for task-involved enjoyment or flow.

Nah, jadi… apa ya? Hahhahaha…

Pesan saya untuk diri saya sendiri: LIVE THE LIFE TO FULLEST.

Itu saja… lakukan yang terbaik, usahakan yang terbaik😀 *melirik tumpukan tantangan yang harus diselesaikan😀

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